Your map of people
A constellation with you in the center. Each node is a person; the lines are shared anecdotes.
The problem
Your life isn't a list of facts. It's a network of people who appear and disappear at different times, cross paths with each other, cross again. When you write anecdotes, those people are nodes. Seeing them in an alphabetical list falls short.
What Anecdotario does
The people graph shows you a constellation: you in the center, each person around you, lines between you proportional to how many anecdotes you share. Lines between two other people (without going through you) show when your mom and your grandmother appear in the same anecdote — coincidences you probably didn't remember.
What it tells you
- Who is central in your life — the closest nodes to you, with the thickest lines.
- Who appears rarely — someone you remembered only once, in a single anecdote.
- Who crosses with whom — relationships between your relationships, visible only when you see everything together.
- How it changes over time — last year's graph and your childhood's look different.
What it's for
- Remembering who you didn't tell something. You see your sister in the graph, you realize you never told her about '99, you send her a chest.
- Deciding who to tag. When you write a new anecdote, the graph suggests related people who might be in that story too.
- Onboarding someone new to your network. If your son eventually opens an account and you start merging stories with him, the graph grows and you see how your narrative weaves into his.
How to get there
Dashboard → People → "View graph". Click any node to go to that person's profile, with all the anecdotes where they appear.
You add friends one by one, you tag each other in anecdotes, and merge the ones you lived together into a single voice. No public feed, no metrics — just people you actually lived things with.
You curate anecdotes, write a dedication, send it. The other person opens it when you say. It's not a post — it's a gift for someone specific.